good analogy of Obama's 'redistribution of wealth' concept

A friend shared this email with me today and I thought I would share it with others.

'In a local restaurant my server had on a 'Obama 08' tie, again I laughed as he had given away his political preference--just imagine the coincidence. When the bill came I decided not to tip the server and explained to him thatI was exploring the Obama redistribution of wealth concept. He stood therein disbelief while I told him that I was going to redistribute his tip tosomeone who I deemed more in need--the homeless guy outside. The serverangrily stormed from my sight. I went outside, gave the homeless guy $10 and told him to thank the serverinside as I've decided he could use the money more. The homeless guy wasgrateful. At the end of my rather unscientific redistribution experiment I realizedthe homeless guy was grateful for the money he did not earn, but the waiterwas pretty angry that I gave away the money he did earn even though theactual recipient needed the money more. I guess redistribution of wealth is an easier thing to swallow in conceptthan in practical application.'

Well He Finally Did It!!!!

Yesterday morning PJ took his first steps BY HIMSELF! He walked from me to Anya a few short steps. He is doing the same today. Sigh. . . . . Our baby boy walking. He had his first birthday last Thursday. Our family is still in awe of what joy and love he brings to this family. I once asked my mom about how she managed to love 7 kids so much. She reassured me that with each child the love was not divided but multiplied. I sure have learned that with each addition to our family. . . . . . the love just multiplies.

"what is defeat?"

Being a mom of three children who all started learning the English language 3 years ago can be entertaining and frustrating at the same time. My older girls would much rather ask me what a word is than use a dictionary. Today the question was "mom what is defeat?" I answered, laughed and then told her to look it up in the dictionary. While she looked it up I grabbed the camera to share what happened :).

PJ cruising but will never say "Mama"

Well my sweet baby is cruising with assitance of a walker and loving every minute of it. He makes my heart smile so much. I am convinced though that he will be able to verbalize the declaration of independance word for word before ever being able to say the word "mama." HE usually breaks out in laughter when I ask him to say it, as if saying "not as long as you ask me to do it." He says "dada" all the time, I have heard him say "babba", "anya" "hi" and Galina thinks she heard him say Galina (hee hee).

Here is some video of the hunk of love.
excuse the unsnapped pj bottoms :)

WOOOOHOOO

Wooo hooo Peter and I went out on a date with NO KIDS! The last time we tried a date we brought PJ and he wanted nothing to do with a nice quiet evening out. So today the kids all stayed home and Peter and I went for a lunch out and then a movie. We saw American Carol. Over all a good movie....wish they did use so much profanity but it was refreshing to see a movie making fun of the other side.

What dreams are made of. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Dreaming of having children you dream of pitter patter of feet, children's laughter, early Christmas mornings and so much more. One of those things is your children putting on a little talent show performing only for mom and dad. Our kids are performers and love to put on little shows for us. This past week Anya has had plenty of time to self teach herself on the piano (after much prayer and consideration she has been pulled from public school, we are currently enrolled in a home charter school and applying to a few private schools). She has been working on "Silent Night". The past couple of days she has mastered it pretty good. With the vidoe camera she didn't do as well but still precious never the less. Thought I would share.

High School.....is hard!

My heart is hurting for my Anya. Today is the Homecoming Dance and she had planned to go with a group of 3 other girls. They were suppose to be here at 5PM, eat pizza, get ready for the dance and then all go together. One girl and her friend called and called at 4:30 to flake (still meeting her at the dance but still). Then the other girl called at 5:30 and flaked (also still going to the dance but will meet Anya at the dance). Why are girls so flakey? They have had this planned for a week. Anya was so excited. Now my poor beautiful daughter has to arrive to the dance by herself. Her and I have often talked how difficult it is to be a teenager in a group and walk by yourself. I recalled and she confirmed it is still true that a teenager walks into a room by themself feeling like they have a big neon sign blinking "LOSER." I try to tell her everyone feels this way and hopefully someday she will out grow it but I guess that probably wont help her tonight. If by chance you read my blog tonight can you say a prayer for my precious daughter? I will post pictures of my beautiful girl after I take her to the dance. By the way anyone want 3 pizzas?

Recieved this email!!!

Regardless of your political views this has to make you laugh! Well at least it did me!

Thanks Marlene!

Update to my Colonoscopy

All clear!!! Praise the Lord! Having some strong family history (Grandmother, cousin and Uncle), its nice to know my colon is good. I dont need another one for 10 years. It was completely painless (thanks to some wonderful medications!).

Colonoscopies and good laughs with friends!

I struggled briefly on whether to share these details about my private life....but then I thought what the heck!
OK so tomorrow I am having a colonoscopy.
As a GI nurse I must get on my soap box about how EVERYONE at the age of 50 should get one....and if you missed it at age 50 its still not to late. Colon cancer is a silent killer. Most times by the time there is symptoms it is too late. And lets face it no one wants to volunteer to have that test....although i did volunteer my hubby Peter for one three years ago. The end result of his was "the test was not that bad" and the doctor did find a very small precancerous polyp that 10 years from then at age 50 might have been a huge mass of cancer requiring surgery, chemo or worse yet had it spread. I often like to tease him that I saved his life. Anyways he is scheduled for a follow up colonoscopy in October. OK so off my soap box and onto my colonoscopy.
So today I called a friend. To avoid any identifying information since I do not have permission to share her story...I will just say we have known each other almost FOREVER! and I really mean FOREVER. Anyways, we talk small talk. Hows the kids? Hows our husbands? Hows our siblings" Hows my mom? Hows her parents? Then on to how we are are. We begin to talk about her personal health issues she is having, and aches and pains and doctor appointments. We then go into my issues and that I am having a colonoscopy tomorrow. By the end of our conversation we were both in hysterics on how our conversations have turned into old people conversations. Her and I must get together soon and do some fun young stuff after today's conversation. TOO funny!
Anyways, so for those that are over due for a colonoscopy PLEASE GET ONE!

A Week Of Firsts

Evidently PJ likes to accomplish things on vacation. SO far this week at the beach he has FINALLY said "Mama", walked holding onto the stroller, clapped and played in and ate sand. My baby boy is growing way way way too fast. He is such a beautiful gift from God and amazes me every day.

OH NO!!!!

I would like to post a crosswalk light for PJ with the big red hand meaning "DONT WALK!"

Well last night while the girls were playing a bit of beach volleyball (and not so bad considering mary is 5 and galina is 10 and their cousin is 8....but then again it was three of them against anya)....anyways and Peter and I were just sitting and relaxing in the lobby of our time share and Peter put PJ down on the floor. As we were talking I looked to my right and PJ is walking his stroller acorss the lobby. OK um when did he start walking? He hasn't even walked holding onto still furniture but he is going to go acorss the room holding onto the stroller? Sigh. Slow down baby boy, mommy is not ready for you to grow so fast.

A week at the Beach!

The beautiful view from our room.

PJ and Daddy hanging out by the pool. PJ loves swimming and loves it even more if he sees a ball to chase after.

After a day at the pool we went to walk along the ocean to see the sunset (you can see Flat Stanley in some as he is visiting our family this month).


The girls and I made Peter a birthday cake for his birthday (OK disclaimer here....it actually looked better in real life...and we were away from home and they didnt have cake pans so we had to make do with what the condo provided).
Brave mommy took three of the kids to the beach while Peter went to work and Anya went to school. A few days later we did the same time only this time brought my 8 year old niece Danielle. We went for a walk I took the kids to the beach and we dragged a wagon to carry booogie boards, lunch, towels, beach towel and umbrellas. We get to the beach set up blankets and towels and my chair....put the boogie boards on the sand and then go for about a 3 or 4 mile walk to look for shells. I had an uneasy feeling on our walk like maybe I shouldn't have left all the stuff (the wagon was a nice one, the boogie boards just not stuff i have money to replace right now). Towrads the end of the walk I am getting antsy knowing something is wrong.....somebody is getting into my stuff....AND I WAS RIGHT!!!! THEY got into our lunch! As I was getting closer to our stuff I saw a squirell on the sand standing up leaning on my wagon...I yell at him to shoo and he does....as I walk even closer I see another one and he runs....and another...and another....when i stand over the wagon there is TWO more in my lunch bag eating our sandwhiches and refusing to leave as I am yelling at them waving my fists!......one stopped and actually gave me the STINK EYE....like "COME ON MAMMA, TRY AND STOP ME I WILL TAke YOU DOWN!!!!!!" FInally my niece claps her hands and they went runniing away. They chewed through two plastic bags one to get to the lunch the other to get to the sandwhiches...so we had to throw the sandwhiches away. I had an alomst full bag of chips and when i opened that it was full of sand (meaning they got my chips)....ok they are so lucky i wasnt PMSing and they didnt have choclate to get into or we would have had squirell burgers for didnner....Anyways out of the kids lunch the did not touch granola bars or their juice....so the girls sat down to eat the granola bars and juice when mary starts screaming we turn around and two squirels are ON MY BLANKET STARING AT ME.....i yell for them to shoo and wave my hands and they both give me the stink eye again like "C'MON mamma try to take us on!"...again my niece claped and they ran off and stood on the rocks staring at me giving me looks and talking behind my back...how horrible is it i was actually afraid of these squirrels? I We eneded up moving our stuff further doown the beach away from the cliff and rocks....i was sure i was going to have squirerl nightmares of them taking me down and beating me up and stealing my house. Wish i had my camera b/c although it is a true story it is hilarious...especially seeing 5 squirells in my wagon, the only non funny part is that they are distgusting (although cute) and were in our lunch.

PJ after a day at the beach.

Mary roasting marshmellows for smores.

All the kids pose for a picture around the fire pit after eating smores.

Silence

Anya and Mary are at school. PJ is napping and my brother in law took Galina to the beach. I have almost forgotten what silence is. Peace and quiet and its light outside. Its been years. Funny I recall the 13.5 years of painfully quietness of not having children. We prayed for the sound of pattering feet through the house and childrens giggles. That is what God has blessed us with only instead of the pattering we have galloping :). And mixed with the giggles is an occassional cry or sounds of fighting. A family that we had prayed for. I love quiet moments to remind me of how blessed I am. A little quiet time with God to give thanks for those 13 and 1/2 years of infertilty to give us a better appreciation for each of our miracles. OK well the silence is over I hear one of my miracles crying. He evidently is up from his nap and letting me know it. Well the 15 minutes was nice while it lasted. Thank you God for each one of my miracles, BIG and small :)

Three sisters =s blackmail for a brother's teenage years!

Well when you are incredibly blessed with three older sisters....they are bound to dress you up and take pictures. Pictures that as a teenager you would rather not existed. Well there is time, time for daddy to delete them from the computer before PJ becomes older. But meanwhile Mommy thinks they are funny and will share with you all.

0, 5,10, 15.....40

Those are the ages of 5 out of 6 of us are now that Galina turned 10 yesterday. She had a wonderful party at Libby Lu with her friends and cousins. They all got makeovers, shopped and danced.

The girls picked out matching costumes to get their makeovers in.

After Libby Lu the girls headed out for lunch, cupcakes and presents.

What a busy day! Galina's 10th birthday and Mary's first day of kindergarten and Anya's first day of her sophmore year in high school. Mary did great....mommy got a little sad but did ok. Here is some pictures from the day.

Handprints at Nightlight Christian Adoption Agency

Nightlight has a room that they have the children that have been adopted through their programs put their hand prints on the wall. For years, while waiting with painfully empty arms we would go to Nightlight for different occassions and see the wall. I always dreamed of having my child's prints up on the wall. Oh how we have been blessed. We went last week and were pleased to see thatafter three years they still had room next to the girls prints for PJ's.
Galina, Anya and Mary's handprint with Peter's foot print.

Mary, Anya, PJ and Galina in front of their prints.

A Visit with Flat Stanley

Ok so some girlfriends of mine with their kids and mine are doing a flat stanley and he is here visiting our family right now. SO far Stanley got me out of a ticket (I accidently went thru a VERY NEW stop sign in the middle of nowhere on a back street), went to work with Peter, hung out with Mary and Galina in the pool, ate lunch with the kids. Our Stanley began in Texas and so far has been to Prague, New Zeland, Australia, Japan, Maryland, Indiana and now with us in Southern California (I hope i did not miss any stops). From our family he will head to Ohio.

Here are some pictures of the kids with Stan.

The First 1/2 of 2008 Update!

OK whew, so now that I have transfered all my information from my update to this blog I guess it is time to update on 2008. I will be cancelling my website most likely in December to save money as well as blogging is much easier to post.
PJ is now 9 and 1/2 months old. He is crawling, pulling himself up and standing next to furniture. He is an absolute joy and the whole family is in absolute love with this boy. It is so sweet and makes me get teary when I hear Peter talking to him and calling him "son." PJ has6 teeth so far. 2 on the bottom and 4 on the top. He loves to eat. It is funny how God blessed me with two children that ABSOLUTELY loves to eat......Anya and PJ. Then I have two children that do not like to eat, Galina and Mary. PJ will eat waffles, cheese, ham, eggs, pancakes, cheerios, ANYTHING. He is a very happy baby and started saying dada in July.
Mary had her fifth birthday in June (how can that be?). She has had such big changes this past year. Such a big girl. She started riding a two wheel bike in April and though she learned how to swim last year (more like learned how to not sink) this year she has really strengthened her swimming skills so she is confident in the deep end of pools. She is very goal orientated wanting to become an astronaut and fly the space shuttle when she grows up. I cant believe she starts the first day of kindergarten in one week from today. She is very excited. I am a little sad.
Galina finished her first year at the catholic school in the area and it was such an incredible blessing to have her go there. I was actually shocked how much more programs they offered her at this school vs the public school she went to the first 2 years in America. She also learned how to ride a bicycle this year (in February). She has been in Karate since February and earned her yellow belt. She is learning her new role as big sister. While Anya and Peter were gone for 2 weeks she was a wonderful mothers helper with Mary and PJ. She has grown so much.
Anya will be 16 in December. She finished her first year of high school and just Monday we registered her for her sophomore year of high school. Time with my teenage girl is going much too fast. I wish it would slow down with her because in just three short years she will be in college. I want to just stop time with her and teach her everything she needs to know. She sure does like the boys which gives mommy a bit of a stroke. She played water Polo during the winter and loved it and swam during the spring and loved that as well. I am so proud of her , she got a 4.0 at the end of this last semester. She is a very smart girl. Last month she packed her bag (all 25 lbs of it) and headed to World Youth Day in Australia with her Daddy for two weeks. The first two weeks they stayed in Melbourne for Days in the Diocese. The second week they stayed in Sydney. They had a wonderful time and had the opportunity to see the Pope on three occasions. For a special vigil mass they hiked a little over 6 miles and got the opportunity to hike over the Sydney Harbour Bridge as part of the pilgrimage. After getting to their destination they set up camp for over night and slept outside with about 500,000 other Catholic Youth. Over the two weeks In Australia they attended catacethis, watched live stations of the cross, and much much more. The stories they share are amazing especially trading trinkets and religious items with people from all over the world. What an amazing journey these two made and shared with each other. A journey all the more special because it was shared between a daddy and his oldest teenage daughter.
Peter is doing great (heck he should be he just got back from Australia hee hee). Still working as a CPA for the local firm. He was diagnosed this year with three slipped discs to his back. This diagnoses only came after walking like an old man for 10 years with out hardly ever complaining about pain. I finally said enough is enough you need to get checked out. He still has not gone for any treatment as we are still trying to determine what kind of treatment to do. He did participate a little with Galinas karate but with his back he had to keep that to a minimum.
I started back at work after having almost a year off earlier this year. Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately with changes in my department and new hires I have been getting called off work a lot. I have been hired on to work extra hours at the two local hospitals. Still waiting to orientate to these hospitals. The kids keep Peter and I incredibly busy with homework and sports but we would not have it any other way. Earlier this year we went to the dark side and purchased a SUV. It was out of necessity because my sister with four children and I (with four children) baby sit share and needed a nine seats to carpool 8 kids plus me to drive. It was a very sad day to get rid of our Toyota Seinna, but I have adjusted. Other than that we are doing great. Busy but great! I am hoping now that I have this blog I will be able to do more updates and typos :).

2007 Murray Clan Update!

A Review of 2007

Wow, what a year. Most of the year can be reviewed under Snowflake 2 Page. We began our year with a successful frozen embryo transfer. After a very rough start and months of bed rest we were blessed beyond measure with a beautiful son we named Peter Joseph.

October 16 the before going to hospital for PJ's delivery.

Peter bonding with his son right after he was born

The name Peter after well obviously after Peter, Joseph after Suzanne's wonderful and dearly missed father. We have nicknamed him PJ. PJ is a busy 2 month old who is busy eating, messing diapers, having late night parties and being just darn adorable.

PJ on Halloween at 2 weeks of age.

PJ 2 1/2 months old at the end of December

Mary turned four this year. Her one birthday wish was to receive a purple guitar, she got a pink one instead. She is thrilled beyond words to be a big sister. She has really been a prayer warrior this year reminding everyone to pray for certain requests. She learned how to swim at the beginning of the summer Hooray for no floaties! She will be starting preschool in January, and kindergarten in August.

Mary poses as a four year old!

Mary trying on her new fairey out fit and boots playing her guitar!

Galina, turned 9 in August. She participated in Nightlight's Russian ensemble choir over the summer, singing in both Russian and English. She had fun performing at various venues such as multiple churches, the Nightlight summer reunion, and the Orange County fair. She also kept busy all summer participating in various activities such as VBS, art, math and music summer camps. Galina started the 3rd grade at a new Catholic school nearby. She enjoys going sharing a class with one cousin and playing with 3 others at lunch that all attend the same school. She played and enjoyed her first year of volleyball, receiving a medal at the end of the season. WE hope to start her in Karate in the beginning of next year.

Galina her first day of school 8/07

Galina on her 9th Birthday.

Anya turned 15 in December. She had a very busy year making all her sacraments at the Easter Vigil mass, graduating from 8th grade, playing her last season of volleyball, participating in water polo camp during the summer, starting high school and now playing high school league water polo. She is saving money to travel to Australia in July 2008 with her Daddy for World Youth Day. Having a child in high school does keep a mommy busy.

Galina and Anya Mary and Anya, when Anya tried on her dress for Winter Formal Mary ran and got her Cindrella dress so she could look like her big sister.

As for us, we are incredibly busy parents blessed beyond measure with four wonderful children. Yes there are many of days we are so very overwhelmed but yet in awe how God has entrusted us with the great kids. Peter is still at the same CPA firm. Suzanne has been off from work since early pregnancy complications in February of this year. She has been busy these past few months being a mom to four children driving kids to sporting events and school. Life is never dull in the Murray household and we praise God for that!


Peter poses for a picture with his son.















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